It's your life

“Don’t be into trends. Don’t make fashion own you, but you decide what you are, what you want to express by the way youdress and the way you live.”

Reflection

.“Fashion is not necessarily about labels. It’s not about brands. It’s about something else that comes from within you.” —Ralph Lauren

“Fashion has to reflect who you are, what you feel at the moment, and where you’re going.”

Believe it or not i did it.

"I have worked as a cleaner in London before. I used to clean universities while my age mates were studying.   I have also worked as a burger flipper in  McDonald's. I have  worked in Tescos, Boot's, Dixon's, Jones boot makers and being homeless before.   I wore one suite to church,  however  it never stopped me from loving God because I understood times and seasons.   At a point the mother of  a young girl I wanted to marry in London told me never to step foot into their house simply because I had nothing to my name. I think she provoked something in me.   Today by the grace of God, I am a CEO of almost 10 companies, with an honorary Doctorate (degree), a UN ambassador with an honorary key to the city of Brooklyn, an author of 15 books , 3 smashing albums under my record, happily married to a beautiful queen and God has blessed me with 2 kids.  So when I tell you don't give up , please hear me you are next in line for Gods breakthrough." ~ SONNIE BADU

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Vera Sidika Launches Her Veetox Tea In A Star

Vera Sidika Launches Her Veetox Tea In A Star Studded Lavish Ceremony (PHOTOS)JulianMay 23, 2017CELEBRITY GOSSIP(Last Updated On: May 23, 2017)If you have been following Vera Sidika on social mediafor the past couple of years, you will notice that from time to time she has been promoting a type of tea thatwill help women in losing weight. It looks like Vera Sidika has decided to launch her own competing product that does the same function. She named it after herself by calling it Veetox Tea. She says it is an outstanding herbal detox that help in reducing bloating,cleaning digestive system, improve metabolism and burn belly fat.The tea will be sold at Ksh3,000 per pack and its already getting orders from all over the world. Vera held a lavish ceremony at the Royal Orchid to launch the product and invited various celebrities like Jalang’o,Eric Omondi, Catherine Kamau, Kalekye Mumo and others.Vera posted this statement on her Instagram account:Veetox Launch was very successful and I want to take this opportunity to thank each and everyone for the support and most importantly; your patience.It has been a long time coming and to finally see this day…meant so much to me.I Went through a lot of challenges…Some people never believed in my vision, some said it will never happen. But God saw me through every step I made.I have been working on this for long cause I had to consider so many factors before launching. First things first; I would never sell what I wouldn’t use. That’s a fact.I know So many have questions, kindly visit www.veetox.com and read about Veetox, understand the product before purchase. All I want is to see women become confident with their bodies and slay that Flat Tummy!!!!!! 

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"Never give up" Michael

Michael Abdul an addict who drinks the passion of style and eats the creativity of what people call fashion is Tanzanian citizen who has enormous goals towards art and style, he is a St. Augustine university student undertaking public relations, where he believes that a day will come when his struggles will lead him to his dream. "Never give up "

STRUGGLES

A person wakes up and thinks of today,
What will i do today?
How much will i earn?
Will I succeed or will I fail?
Such questions bother him every day.

I hope I will succeed someday,
Though i do not know what's on my way,
Believing in God is what I can say,
The only thing left is to pray,
Because tomorrow is another day,

Problems are always what I get,
Do you think this is one of my target?
A happy life will come after a great struggle,
For it is what I believe,

Am not tired of these difficulties,
Because they are always there to cover
What they call life time,
Everyone has their own way of life,
Then why shouldn't i accept mine?

I always try to change what's ahead of me,
Especially the difficulties,
I believe i have qualities,
To overcome problems,
With such conditions.

Life is the way we treet one another
Life is when we can see the good and bad within us
Life isn't complete without me
Life is when we can hold hands and face the world
Life is when love is around
Life is togetherness
Life family
Life is everything we have been doing
But life isn't complete when we say "i can't any more"

Billboard Music Awards: Drake sweeps past Adele's record with 13 wins

Billboard Music Awards: Drake sweeps past Adele's record with 13 wins Canadian rapper, who walked into the show Sunday with 22 nominations, won top artist, top male artist and top Billboard 200 album, among others   View more sharing options Associated Press Monday 22 May 2017 04.50 EDT First published on Monday 22 May 2017 01.11 EDT Drake has surpassed Adele’s record at the 2017 Billboard Music Awards on Sunday, picking up 13 awards. The Canadian rapper, who walked into the show Sunday with 22 nominations, won top artist, top male artist and top Billboard 200 album (Views), among others, at the T-Mobile Arena in Las Vegas. Adele set a record at the show in 2012 with 12 wins. “I got my whole family up here,” said Drake, who stood onstage with nearly two dozen people, including his father, Lil Wayne and Nicki Minaj. God complex: how religion became the bedrock of modern rap Drake was presented with the top artist award by Prince Jackson, the late Michael Jackson’s eldest son. Drake beat out Beyonce, Justin Bieber, Rihanna, Adele, Ariana Grande, the Weeknd, twenty one pilots, Shawn Mendes and the Chainsmokers for the top prize. Of those nominees, only Drake and the Chainsmokers attended the Billboard Awards.

There's always a story behind everyone.

Everyone has a Story in Life A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted… “Dad, look the trees are going behind!” Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed… “Dad, look the clouds are running with us!” The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man… “Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?” The old man smiled and said… “I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today. Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.

Michael Jordan

Michael Jordan “I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can’t accept not trying.” ~ Michael Jordan. How can I talk about motivation and not mention Michael Jordan? Jordan suffered his first set-back in his sophomore year when he was left out of the varsity basketball team. Reason? He was only 5’9” at that time. His taller classmate Leroy Smith had won the last spot on the team. He made up his mind that he would never have to face a similar situation ever again and started practicing every day after that, making it a point to take out time for his practice daily without fail. He soon shot up to 6’3”, made the team the next year and never had to look back after that. From being a part of two gold-medal winning teams at the Olympics to winning NBA’s Most Valuable Player Award five times in his career, Jordan dominated the sports field for more than a decade in the ‘90s.

The Giving Tree

Once upon a time, there lived a big mango tree. A little boy loved to come and play around it everyday. He climbed to the tree top, ate the mangoes, took a nap under the shadow… He loved the tree and the tree loved to play with him. Time went by, The little boy grew, and he no longer played around the tree. One day, the boy came back to the tree with a sad look on his face. “Come and play with me,” the tree asked the boy. “I am no longer a kid, I don’t play around trees anymore.” The boy replied, “I want toys. I need money to buy them.” “Sorry, I don’t have money… but you can pick all my mangoes and sell them so you will have money.” The boy was so excited. He picked all the mangoes on the tree and left happily. The boy didn’t come back. The tree was sad. One day, the boy grown into a man returned. The tree was so excited. “Come and play with me,” the tree said. “I don’t have time to play. I have to work for my family. We need a house for shelter. Can you help me?” “Sorry, I don’t have a house, but you can chop off my branches to build your house.” So the man cut all the branches off the tree and left happily. The tree was glad to see him happy but the boy didn’t come back afterward. The tree was again lonely and sad. One hot summer day, the man returned and the tree was delighted. “Come and play with me!” The tree said. “I am sad and getting old. I want to go sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?” “Use my trunk to build your boat. You can sail far away and be happy.” So the man cut the tree trunk to make a boat. He went sailing and didn’t come back for a long time. Finally, the man returned after he had been gone for so many years. “Sorry, my boy, but I don’t have anything for you anymore. No more mangoes to give you.” The tree said. “I don’t have teeth to bite,” the man replied. “No more trunk for you to climb on.” “I am too old for that now,” the man said. “I really can’t give you anything, the only thing left is my dying roots,” the tree said with sadness. “I don’t need much now, just a place to rest. I am tired after all these years,” the man replied. “Good! Old tree roots are the best place to lean on and rest. Come sit down with me and rest.” The boy sat down and the tree was glad and smiled. The tree in the story represents our parents. When we are young, we love to play with them. When we grow up, we leave them and only come back when we need help. Parents sacrifice their lives for us. Never Forget their sacrifices. Give them Love and Care before its too late

EARLIER 

LATER 

Today

TODAY A YOUNG AUTHOR RAPHAEL CLEMENT TELLS EVERY ONE HOW IT FEELS TO BE LOVED AND TO BE HAPPY ARE THE WAYS TO SUCCESS: IT HAS BEGUN,
THE HAPPINESS AND PAIN WE FACED BEFORE, HAS BEEN OVER SHADOWED BY A CLOUDY SKY, BUT IT IS NEVER TO BE FORGOTTEN NO MATTER HOW PAINFUL IT WAS. LET US USE THAT SAME PAIN TO SEE WHAT'S ON THIS SIDE OF THE YEAR,IT'S A COIN WE HAVE IN OUR HANDS BUT WE ALL WISH THIS SHINING COIN TO FALL IN THE CORRECT GESTURE THAT WE HAVE ALREADY GUESSED BEFORE,
WHY ALWAYS YOU?WHY NOT THEM?
AND WHY NOT US?
WHY ALWAYS THEM?
THESE ARE THE QUESTIONS WE ALL HAVE,
BUT THAT WILL CHANGE SOME DAY,
WHO KNOWS MAY BE THIS YEAR OR MAY BE TOMORROW.
PEOPLE WHO ARE STRONG IN THEIR HEARTS ARE UNBEATEN.
HAVING HUGE MUSCLES AND A STRONG BODY OUT APPEARANCE IS NEVER BEING STRONG,
TO WIN THIS WAR YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG FROM YOUR HEART AND TO HAVE HOPE IN YOURSELF,
BEING PATIENT AND CALM,BELIEVING IT,BECAUSE ANY THING YOU WANT COULD HAPPEN WITH YOUR OWN IMAGINATION.
WE CAN ALWAYS COUNT TO TEN JUST LIKE OLD TIMES MY FRIENDS BECAUSE WE BELIEVE TEN IS NEARER.

LOVE

LOVE IS NOT MADE OUT OF SEX BUT ITS MADE OUT OF CARE AND KINDNESS DID YOU EVER ASKED YO SELF IF U LOVED THE WRONG PEOPLE ALREADY?SOME TIMES WE GET BLINDED,AND FORGET EVERYTHING WE PLANED,DO U FEAR THAT YOUR LOVED ONES WILL DISAPPEAR?JUST ASK DO YOU LOVE ME?IF I LOVE YOU IT DOESN'T MEAN I WANA TAKE YOU TO BED,BECOZ LOVE IS ALL ABOUT CARE AND CAN'T BE EXPRESSED THROUGH PHYSICAL MEANS EITHOR TOUCH,A KISS OR A HUG BECOZ I CAN DO ALL THAT BUT DO YOU THINK THAT IS ALL ABOUT LOVE? Love IS A VERY STRONG FEELING,AND FEELINGS LIKE LOVE MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN OUR LIVES,SOME TIMES WE THINK WE ARE THE RIGHT PARTNERS IN RELATIONSHIPS THEN IF ITS TRUE HOW MUCH DO WE CARE FOR THE ONES WE LOVE?WHEN WE LOVE LET US TRY TO MAKE WISE DECISIONS.IF WE ARE TOGETHER AND WE ARE NOT HAPPY IT MEANS WE DONT DESERVE TO BE TOGETHER.WE CANT KEEP FIGHTING FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES,WE HAVE TO MOVE ON. 

A million tears

IF I COULD CRY A MILLION TEARS FOR A GIRL,THEN I THINK THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN TRUE LOVE,IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW PAINFUL I FEEL BUT SOME TIMES WE HAVE TO LET GO,BUT DON'T EVER LET GO IF U THINK U STILL HAVE THE FEELINGS FOR THAT PERSON,SOME TIMES WE GET TIRED AND CHOOSE TO BE HEART BROKEN STILL THE BROKEN PIECES OF OUR HEART HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH THE SAME PEOPLE,SOME TIMES WHEN WE ARE QUITE MANY THINK THAT WE DON'T LOVE THEM ANY MORE BUT MAY BE WE WANT THEM TO MISS US MORE.
I have screamed out a million voices to this angry world saying no one loves me any more but then I have hope to find a piece of my broken heart. It doesn't matter if it's either the same one or another one, i just want my heart to be whole again. And all i want is to love and be loved back.          

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Smile

Life is never fair it contains of so much pain,but if we choose to smile to problems we face, there comes millions of solutions.we should never stop as long as we still have oxygen to breath in,look around and make wise choices that won't make you regret in tomorrow's life because a smile doesn't guarantee happiness for we sometimes smile to hide the true feeling we have, it's because our tears are no more.

Beautiful things

Why do we close our eyes
when we pray,cry,kiss,dream?
Is it because we are afraid?
Or it is Because the most beautiful
things are not seen but felt
only by heart.
Have you ever wondered that
we sleep with our eyes closed?
Yet we dream evil and good.
Is it because we are tired of seeing what is
Happening around our world.

Do you close your eyes when you get mad?
Or when your body is in pain,
Every one has emotional effects that
Happen to be unique in their own nature,
It is a heart-felt decision and we accept that
It is one side of life story.

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U.S top star R.kelly remixes "IF" 2017 Hit song of Nigeria's Davido.

Top U.S. singer, songwriter and record producer, Robert Sylvester Kelly, popularly referred to as R Kelly in the showbiz industry has given an endorsement to Nigerian artiste Davido’s hit single called ‘IF.’R Kelly just last week released a remix version of Davido’s track which has been enjoying massive airplay across the continent with huge views on Youtube as well.The singer posted his remix on his Facebook and Twitter accounts with a message that read, ‘‘NEWMUSICALERT: I had to jump on the remix to Nigerian artist @iam_Davido song, “IF,” debuting at number 2 on the charts!’‘NEW MUSIC ALERT: I had to jump on the remix to Nigerian artist Davido's song, "IF."🚨NEWMUSICALERT🚨 I had to jump on the remix to Nigerian artistiam_Davidosong,"IF," debuting at #2 on the charts!pic.twitter.com/xZgqQTBWwL— R. Kelly (rkelly)May 13, 2017It is unclear when a full track will be released in that line. But the Nigerian artist Davido whose songs including Gobe and Skelewu have gained popularity across Africa, while celebrating the endorsement put it down to staying true to his culture.Whiles hailing the U.S star who he described as a ‘legend,’ Davido said he was honored advising other artistes to stay true to their culture and that ‘THEY– the big global stars –WILLCOME.’

The song basically talks about how a man seeks to reassure his lover (by name Brigette) of his unendinglove promising her a cash sum of 30billion (even though he didn’t specify whether dollars or naira) in her account plus designer wear for her. It has been been viewed over 14.3 million times on Youtube.

The desert story

A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand “Today my best friend slapped me in the face”. They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone “Today my best friend saved my life”. The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, “After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?” The other friend replied “When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.” Do not value the things you have in your life. But value who you have in your life.
So many times we have valued things other than the people around us, life of another is of much importance. Money, automobile, mansions, and all other things one may think are of value than humanity will pass but life doesn't last and that is for you to remember.

Jeffrey Jessie "SPESHOZ"

Jeffrey Jessey.
By Elizabeth Tungaraza
With ready-made clothes flooding the market, most people, especially the young generation prefer to buy their outfits from the malls or boutiques. This is becauseof the poor services they get from some local tailors.But for 28-year-old Jeffrey Jessey, things are different as he can make you look elegant and confident at the same time. He and his three colleagues came up with Speshoz fashion line to make clothes which truly fit and make people look good. In fact, he is behind the look of some of our top musicians, politicians among others.Success had an interview with him and he shared his successful story on how it all started."My wife Cecilia Mosha and I run a fashion group called Speshoz Tanzania which is situated at Sinza Africa Sana in Dar es Salaam. Speshoz is a clothing line that was established in 2013 March with a key focus in providing the market with custom made outfits for both men and women," explains Jeffrey.He says the group was initially established in March by him and three other people who later left due to some reasons.Both Jeffrey and his wife are graduates from the University of Dar es salaam and they both feel that their education background did quite a bit in exposing them to the modern world though not so much to the specifics of the fashion industry.Explaining how he developed his interest in fashion design, Jeffrey he grew up watching his mother who was a tailor."My mother was a tailor back in the days and she alwaysmade sure that some of us learnt how to stitch differentthings. In my days as a child this used to be a heavy punishment though I would always thank her at the end of it all," he recalls."My father used to tell me about the beauty and the confidence gained from knowing that you are either properly dressed or fully fashionable," he says.According to him,this grew to be an in-depth interest and at some point when he was doing his masters in International Business, he learnt that in life one can actually commercialise their interests and passion."It was this point in 2013 where I looked and dug deeper inside to know that there was nothing I loved more than dressing up in a manner that would attract attention of different people," he explains"My wife Cecy loved looking good but had no tailoring background even though her mother had sewing machine in the early 1990s. She came up to my rescue when I was left alone helplessly by the group we startedthe business with. She was a quick learner and a great adopter of my interest and saw potential and the biggerpicture," he says.Like it is in many business everyone has to start somewhere and the case had been for Jeffrey who according to him he started with a small capital."Interestingly I started with only 60,000 shillings that I was given by a client as a down payment. I will thank Mr Ereneus Sway as he trusted me with that amount of money. I had no machine, no office; technically I had nothing but an idea and a plan," he recalls.He went further saying "I remember going to local fundis with my pieces of clothes cut waiting to be stitched since I had no machine and needed help with stitching. It was not easy and just like many other small businesses. Then I kept dipping down to my pockets to finance certain orders. I learnt over the years and developed my capital through savings, bought one machine after the other, moved one office to the next, while expanding our production capacity."At this point in time we proudly can stand and say we own more than 60 machines with non-existent external financing but savings and multiple reinvestments of the saved funds," he confidently announces.Recalling his first job, Jeffrey says it was with the WorldBank Country office in Tanzania where he did quite and number of things to a point that he was appointed azonal coordinator for Water and Sanitation programmes."I can't tell you how much I loved my job only that therewere a few things missing. The main thing that was missing which made my attention switch to fashion was that I wanted to control both the output and the input. At the Bank I could only control the input but not very much the output," says Jeffrey.He says Speshoz was his wife's first job and that has been the most instrumental aspect in the growth and development of their business. "It was arguably the biggest challenge to turn a Natural Scientist to a fashion designer, this challenge was not just between us but with family members as well. Born in a well off and an intellectual family, the decision was not so easy to come by," he narrates.As one of the successful fashion designers, he says there are a number of things that describe their fashions and style."We have tried and maintained our art of style, quality and uniqueness in most of the products. We have thus farbeen successful enough in bringing a balance between the modern and traditional ways of dressing. Most of other designers or tailoring houses have chosen to stick to either a formal dress up or the traditional dress up, some have picked to either go with male or female but we decided to go for both while maintaining both the traditional and modern dressing style," he boasts.That goes hand in hand with how he handles his daily tasks at his fashion company The Speshoz."As an owner and operator there are multiple tasks that call for long hours which include, designing and creationof different outlook patterns, marketing and brand management, managing the business as a whole, point to point supervision of various processes, scouting and recruitment of talents, business expansion strategies," he narrates.With such long working hours comes stress however for him it has not become an obstacle in performing his daily work."In our line of business stress is our daily cup of tea. Stress rises from a lot of aspects, such as work load, unnecessary changes in outfit plans, unforeseen events such as power cuts.We manage the stress by pinpointing exactly what the problem is and finding a way to work around it. With clients we try and ensure that prior communication in the event of unforeseen events or delays is done. Our daily meetings help us manage our customer expectations," he explainsChallenges are inevitable as explained by Jeffrey such as lack of trust from customers who had seen or heard less about what we do, lack of enough manpower to meet the demands, lack of sufficient machinery and inadequate idea-buy-in from the people related or closeto them like family members.There are also challenges associated with the growth of the business as well as expansion, "each of the offices we have had so far have been insufficient, expectations management, growing demand surpasses ourproduction capacity in certain seasons plus structural adjustments which are tricky at times," he notes.There are a number of important facets of the fashion industry that Jeffrey states."There has been a renewed interest in old fashioned stuff coming back in a refurbished manner. We have seenvitenges that were neglected in the early 2000s comingback massively and this time embraced by all genders," he says adding that"contemporary attires have also beenheavily introduced to the Tanzanian market such as shirts that have both the African patterns mixed with formal or modern patterns. This has featured both male and female outlooks," explains the Fashion guru.He is proud to have a list of prominent personalities who were dressed by his design company The Specioz as well."We have dressed quite a number of prominent personalities such as musicians like Diamond Platnumz, Ambwene Yesaya, Yamoto Band, Chege Chigunda. legislators like Anthony Mavunde, Stanislaus Mabula, Ridhiwani Kikwete and Salum Ally Hapi who is a District Comissioner to mention but a few.Jeffrey says he is a strong believer of meditation through peaceful ways. Which according to him has largely helped in building and maintaining business and personal relationships.He also considers himself as a people's person since he puts emphasis on customers' needs and wants."One of our biggest dream is to get to a point of beingone of the worlds recognised fashion brands.," he concludes.
He turns out to be the best fashionist in Tanzania, hope his life story brings hope to those who had given up before. Thank you SPESHOZ
"JEFFREY JESSIE "

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False believes

As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime can break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not. He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.” The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were. Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before? Failure is a part of learning. We should never give up the struggle in life. You Fail not because you are destined to fail, but because there are lessons which you need to learn as you move on with your life.

MYRA ON SWAHILI FASHION

Myra is a young lady who resides in Tanzania, she is a degree University student undertaking the Legal field, she happens to be a great inspiration to girls around the country since apart from Law, Myra deals with fashion and style as she designs several outfits.Recently she has been involved with video shoot out of the famouse African artist Darassa with his new single "Hasara roho"

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Contact her via email :myramartin143.@gmail.com

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Don't feel bad

Once, there was this guy, who was in love with a girl. She wasn’t the most beautiful and gorgeous but for him, she was everything. He used to dream about her, about spending the rest of life with her. His friends told him, “Why do you dream so much about her, when you don’t even know if she loves you or not? First tell her your feelings, and get to know if she likes you or not”. He felt that was the right way. The girl knew from the beginning, that this guy loves her. One day when he proposed, she rejected him. His friends thought he would take alcohol, drugs etc and ruin his life. To their surprise, he was not depressed. When they asked him how was it that he is not sad, he replied, “‘Why should I feel bad? I lost one who never loved me and she lost the one who really loved and cared for her.” True Love is Hard to Get. Love is all about giving to other person without greed of gaining anything in return, if other person rejects it, its him/her who will be losing the most important thing in life. So never feel rejected.

Love is all about care when a man tells a woman am in love with you, it doesn't mean the man wants to take her to bed, it means he is ready to live with all her problems and share the coin of life.

THE DIVORCE

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce. At least, in the eyes of our son - I’m a loving husband…. The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. If you are not in a relationship now, remember this for the second (or third) time around. It's never too late. If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

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Justin Bieber’s New Purpose Tour Merch Collection Is Crazy Hot—Peep the Lookbook

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MAY 17, 2017 @ 11:30 AM

On the heels of his wildly successful Purpose World Tour, Justin Bieber is taking the concert merch game to new levels. According to a release, the 23-year-old pop star has teamed up with Bravado, Universal Music Group's leading merchandise and brand management company, on a "Purpose the Stadium Tour" merch collection, a trendy leisurewear line available in lookbook form today.

The Biebs is no stranger to the world of fashion, but the extensive lookbook marks the first time the "What Do You Mean?" singer has created a visual component for his in-demand tour merchandise. The photos (below) were taken in Los Angeles by hot young photographer Samuel Trotter and feature up-and-coming models Sadjo Ka and Daudo Ka.

"Purpose the Stadium Tour" by Justin Bieber will be available on the European and North American legs of Justin's Purpose tour, starting from June 2 in Landgraaf, Netherlands, at Pinkpop Festival, and will be available for purchase soon on purposetourmerch.com.

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Monica studied Business of Fashion and worked in the fashion industry for several years. Then she took a degree in Mass Communication and Sociology. The stylish lady is a mother of two. Recently she launched her own wristwatch line.

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Are you wondering what life in Tanzania has in store for you and your family? In this guide on living in Tanzania, we first give a brief introduction to Tanzania and its people, and then discuss important topics such as health and safety, accommodation, and schools. Also in this articles health and Safety in Tanzania housing and Schools in Tanzania as one of the most diverse countries in Africa, you can expect a very different cultural experience when moving to Tanzania. The medical facilities in Tanzania are most definitely not of the same standard as those available in western countries. Make sure you talk to your doctor about necessary vaccinations needed before moving. If you want to enroll your child in an international school, you need to get in there early as spaces are limited. For younger children, it is the cultural “norm” for expat families to employ a nanny or household help.Where Is Tanzania?Tanzania has an area of 947,300 sq km and is located in eastern Africa on the Indian Ocean. It shares its longest borders with Kenya (to the northeast) and Mozambique (to the southeast), but also borders Burundi, the Democratic Republic of the Congo, Malawi, Rwanda, Uganda,and Zambia. To the east, Tanzania is bordered by the Indian Ocean. Three of Africa’s largest lakes also border sections of the country: Lake Victoria in the north, Lake Tanganyika in the west, and Lake Nyasa in the southwest.Tanzania is made up of three geographical regions: the islands and coastal plains in the east,a saucer-shaped plateau in the center and west, and the highlands in the northeast. Mount Kilimanjaro, the highest point in Africa standing at 5,895m, lies in these northeastern highlands. Another special geographical feature is the Great Rift Valley, which cuts through the centerof the country.From Tropical to Temperate: Tanzania’s ClimateTanzania’s climate varies from tropical in the coastal areas to temperate in the highlands. In the coastal plains and plateau regions, temperatures range from 25-31°C during the hottest months (November - February) and 15-20°C in the coldest months (May - August). Temperatures in the highlands range between 10-20°C.Some areas in Tanzania have only one rainy season per year, while others have two. The southern, southwestern, central and western partsof the country have a single rainy season, which lasts from December to April. The northern region of the country, including Dar es Salaam and Arusha, has two annual rainy seasons. Peopleliving in this area of Tanzania distinguish between the short rains (Vuli) from October toDecember and the long rains (Masika) from March to May.Culture and DemographicsThere are about 55.5 million people living in Tanzania. In the five decades since its independence, Tanzania’s population has almost quintupled. The population is particularly concentrated in Dar es Salaam and Zanzibar City and their metro areas. Despite these urban centers, just under 70% of the people living in Tanzania still reside in rural areas.Tanzania is one of the most diverse countries in Africa. On the mainland, around 99% of the population is ethnically African, coming from over120 different tribes, almost all of them Bantu. On Zanzibar, the people are of Arab, African, or mixed Arab and African descent. On the mainland, the population is almost evenly split between Islam, Christianity (mostly Roman Catholicism), and indigenous religions. Over 99%of the population of Zanzibar is Muslim.Life in Tanzania is characterized by a mix of African, Arab, European and Indian cultural influences. Kiswahili (Swahili) and English are both official languages. Kiswahili is the lingua franca of central and eastern Africa and the country’s unifying language. Most people living in Tanzania speak one of the 158 local languages as their first language. Arabic is widely spoken on Zanzibar. English is the primary language of business, government administration, and higher education.Health Precautions: Know Your JabsBefore you begin your life in Tanzania, you will want to make sure you take the proper medical precautions. The risk of catching a serious infectious disease is quite high. These diseases include hepatitis A, typhoid fever, yellow fever, malaria, dengue fever, and rabies. The HIV/AIDS rate in the country is also quite high at 4.7% of the population.In addition to checking that all your routine vaccinations are up to date, you should also be vaccinated against Hepatitis A and typhoid fever.Other vaccines to consider are Hepatitis B, yellow fever, and rabies (if you will be in contact with animals). Talk with your doctor about the best anti-malarial medicine option for you and whether you need to start taking it before your departure.Once you start living in Tanzania, be sure not todrink the tap water, as it is full of bacteria and parasites. Many expats get water filtration systems installed in their homes to minimize the risk of contracting waterborne diseases. Malaria-carrying mosquitoes are another big problem. In addition to taking anti-malarial medicine, gettingyour home regularly sprayed against mosquitoes, sleeping under mosquito netting, and using insect repellant are other precautionary measures you can take. Remember that May through July is considered high malaria season in Tanzania.We do our best to keep this article up to date. However, we cannot guarantee that the information provided is always current or complete.

BEAUTIFUL PLACES IN TANZANIA.
Mount Kilimanjaro, Ngorongoro Conservation Area, SerengetiNational Park, Tarangire National Park, Ruaha National Park,Selous Game Reserve, Lake Manyara National Park, Pemba Island, Olduvai Gorge, Mount Meru, Lake Victoria, Ol DoinyoLengai, Lake Natron, Lake Tanganyika, Bongoyo Island, Olduvai Gorge Museum, Mbudya Island, House of Wonders, Hamamni Persian Baths, Old Fort of Zanzibar, National Museum of Tanzania, Old Dispensary, Serengeti, Changuu, Mnemba Island, Forodhani Gardens, Kibo, Sultan's Palace, Zanzibar, St. Joseph's Cathedral, Dar es Salaam, Christ Church, Zanzibar, Uhuru Peak, Ruvubu National Park, UluguruMountains, Azania Front Lutheran Church, Saanane Island National Park, Bahari Zoo, Meserani Snake Park, Askari Monument, Nungwi Beach, Coco Beach, Port of Dar es Salaam, Uhuru Monument, Kunduchi Water Park, Le Grande Casino, Water World, Dar es Salaam Zoo, Peace Memorial Museum, People's Palace